This is an important update about my business and family. Please take a moment and read.
As of late I have received MANY emails, and comments about “where” I have been, as since my move to a new home, posts have been scarce.
Many have said I am/will lose my “customers” or followers with my lack of posting. Maybe, and most likely that is, or will be true. Nonetheless I feel I should explain my reasoning’s.
Now all the wonder, with the questions and comments, leads me to explain something I was going to keep personal. I am always an open book anyway, so why not now too!
Well its not just MY life that is on a HOLD so to speak. A pause, or standstill. It is my entire family that is in this state of pause.
Unknown to the world I’ve been juggling many BIG things, that have required my full attention.
In the midst of the hustle and bustle of the holiday season, while most are focused on shopping, cooking. getting gifts made/wrapped and ensuring everything is done on time, I have been through the beginning of a grueling journey with my mother. A journey I have been on before, and must go on once again.
My mother (who is my rock and my best friend) was diagnosed with Cancer. She is ONLY 54. We all know cancer has no age, no prejudice. It can happen to anyone, anytime.
She has already undergone so many various painful tests, seen innumerable doctors, and now we arrive at the beginning of this new journey. The journey and fight of her life.
I have many feeling about this. First and foremost I trust God. I am at peace with the path we are lead on so far because I know God has a plan for her. I know in my heart she will be healed. I have faith that he will see her through this.
All that being said, my added lack of posting has had more substance than you all knew. If by my initial statement that I made a few weeks ago, with NOT having a complete December Release, that I wanted to take some time off this holiday to catch up on things and make the most of this time with my family, has put some of you off, I’m sorry you feel that way, but I make no apologies for keeping my priorities where they need to be first-and that is my FAMILY.
Family is ALWAYS my top priority, and I am doing by best to balance it all.
I will not let my drive to succeed, doing what I love, ever overshadow what is most important in this world, and that is my FAMILY. I want to keep the primary focus of my life on my family, always. I am a wife, mother, and daughter first.
I don’t only care about papercrafting and/or making money. My first job is my family. This business is a way for me to share what I love to do with others, and enhance their creativity too. I enjoy it, and am thankful to be able to do what I love. While my customers/reader/friends (near, far and cyberlike) are important to me, keeping focus on my family is as well.
I have a store and gallery full of inspiring ideas from myself and my team if people need some inspiration. My team has been a huge help and will provide lot’s of inspiration. I will do my best to continue with expanding my company, as time allows, but ONLY as it doesn’t interfere with what is most important.
I WILL be having a January Release, projects beginning January 1st, and probably a February one too (as I have worked months in advance on all of this) , however I will only spend as much time as I can, without sacrificing family, doing so until the journey with my mother is complete. Until she is healed of this ugly Cancer.
Thank you for letting me share what is going on.
Happy Holidays to you yours, and may you all have a safe, & healthy New Year!
254 Responses for "An update…please read"
I’m sorry to hear about your mother. You should do what you have to do. Sounds like your mother has a wonderful daughter.
My significant other, who just turned 55, has been recently diagnosed with Parkinson’s and a form of dementia.
It’s so sad to see their health go downhill. I’ve also had to make choices and sacrifices but we need to spend time with those we love while we still can.
Keep the faith and do what your heart tells you to do.
I will keep your family in my prayers.
Lauren, thank you for sharing with us. I am glad you are putting your family first. I am sorry to hear about your mother and will pray for your family.
Lauren, First, So sorry to hearabout our mom, but you have your faith and God is always with you. Second, I applaud you for keeping your family in the top priority. I stand behinh you 100%.
God Bless!!!!
My heart and prayers go out to you and your mother and your entire family. You are such an inspiration to me and I for one will always be one of your customers. In fact just yesterday I won a prize at a cookie swap using one of your templates. Shame on those people who told you otherwise!
I’m so sorry to hear about this, and will be praying for your Mom’s health. Your priorities are exactly where they should be, Lauren! Love & big hugs!
I love your priorities and will keep you in my thoughts and prayers.
I am so sorry your Mom is going through this. Your priorities are in the right place. We all love what you provide for us but I’m sure there’s not one of us that doesn’t understand. I will pray for your Mom.
I’m so sorry to hear about your mother. I, too, have been going through health problems with my mom and I know how stressful it is.
It really angers me to hear that you have had to lay all this out for everyone to read because people are so self absorbed that they never even consider that you might be having personal issues to deal with and they tell you to fear losing customers. This type of business is obviously driven by ONE individual with many people that assist. You can’t be all to all people and you have correctly chosen to deal with your highest priorities. Way to go Lauren!
I hope those who are quick to criticize wake up and see that people are people and sometimes the world’s needs are far less important than FAMILY.
Good luck Lauren to you, your family, and your beautiful mother.
I am so sorry to hear about your mom. I am glad you are putting your family first. I hope things will get better for her soon. You will be in my thoughts.
Sending my thoughts and prayers to you and your family. Your family is the only thing you should be tending to right now. Your true fans will keep tabs on you no matter what and will be ready to see your creations when you have the time/desire to do so. Big hugs!
Family does come first!! Thinking of you and your family!
Lauren – Big (((HUGS))) The last thing you need right now is ding dongs giving you a guilt trip. I am so sorry. I’ll be praying for your mom and you.
Behind you 110%, sweetie. I’ll be praying for you…come back when you are ready. 🙂
I’m so sorry to hear about your mom. Of course you should put your family first. Will keep you and your family in my prayers.
I am very new to your blog and this just breaks my heart to read your post. I too, have been down this journey with my dad and my brother. You will never regret the time you spend with your mother. Your priorities are in the right place and God will lead you.
Enjoy a Merry Christmas with your family and thank God for each and every blessing you have.
you will never lose me as a follower, those that jump ship just because you don’t update for a while aren’t worth having as followers anyway.
Your priorities are spot on, family is always, always number one.
I hope you and your family the best for Christmas and I’ll see you around when I do.
Hugs Helene
Lauren, one of the things that I love about you is that you put family first. Take all the time you need to be with your family. I will keep your mom in prayers and you for strength in this new journey that God is leading you down. Sending hugs & prayers.
I’m so sorry to hear about your mom, my thoughts & prayers are with you all. I have always said that FAMILY comes FIRST & I am so happy that you place them first as well. I will always be here whenever you return…I’m NOT going anywhere so take as long as you need. I figured something was going on in your life & I am not one to pry & am so proud of you for posting such a personal post for all your customers & readers who have a need to know. I wish you & your family happiness & joy in this Christmas season. Love & hugs to you Lauren!
I’m so sorry to hear about what you and you’re family is going through and I hope things get better soon. I’m really upset that you were put in this position of having to explain your absence from the blogging world. You have your priorities straight, family ALWAYS comes first.
I’ve been a big fan of yours for a long time, not just because of your talents as a crafter, but also because of the strength you’ve shown in handling the curve balls that life has thrown your way. I will continue to be a big fan/customer/ blog visitor.
Sending hugs and prayers your way!
Lauren,
So sorry to hear about your mom. She is really having to face very challenging times in this part of her life. It is beautiful how you remain humble througout ordeals remembering that your loved ones are what matters in the grand scheme of life. I am a full-time caretaker to my elderly husband and it can often be trying, but God will honor us for our service. I have no doubt about that. Your strength in Him will see you through. Please don’t pay any attention to naysayers. They don’t walk in your shoes. Cyber hugs and blessings to all of you.
So sorry to hear about your mom Lauren! She has already been through so much! You are a wonderful daughter! And in a world which often lacks compassion you seem to actually have your priorities straight! Family is first! I would never think of not being a customer any more because of your lack of posts and now that I know why I am more likely to return cause I know you are a person with an amazing hearT! Best wishes to you and your family this Holiday season and in the coming year! Merry Christmas!
Lauren, you are in the right place, right where you are needed. Don’t worry about anything but family and the rest of us are way down on the list. I am proud of you to have these priorities and if and when your life is able to produce for us (on your terms) I will be there because you have a good product and style. Be where you belong, with your family.
Lauren, I for one will always come back to you for inspiration and fab products! Don’t worry about anything but your family right now. You will ALL be in my prayers. And you’re right…there is PLENTY in your store and your past blog posts and those of your DT to keep us occupied! Hugs to you and your family, and Merry Christmas.
So sorry to hear about your Mom. I hope her treatment goes very well. I also hope that you can find some time to enjoy your new studio….. for yourself and your family. There will always be customers, you can return to your business when your family’s needs are sorted out.
Oh Lauren, I’m so sorry to hear this! I’m a strong believer that you should never judge a person or their actions without a backstory. I’m sorry that people put you in a situation where you feel like you had to share something that you wanted to keep private. My prayers will be with your and your family in this difficult time. I will pray that your mother is able to beat this cancer.
I am so sorry to hear about your mum. You’ve all been through so much already and I’m sure that you will get through this too. You will all be in my thoughts.
I am also sorry that you have had to share something so personal because of a *small* minority. Your true supporters will always be here for you. I may not comment very often, but I always check out for updates because you are such an inspiration.
Love to you all and I hope that you have a Merry Christmas.
xx
Sending good thoughts to you and yours. My mother has survived 2 bouts with cancer and is doing well and I wish the same for your mother. Our families are so much more important than anything else in this world.
So pleased to hear you putting family first!! Hoping your mom’s treatments go as smoothly as can under the circumstances and may God give you strength and peace amidst the chaos life can bring (((hugs))).
Lauren,
I am so sorry to hear about your mother. My prayers are with you and your family as you work through this difficult time.
I would also like to apologize for the lack of courtesy people are showing you by threatening to leave as customers because a lack of posts or releases. There is so much more to life than that.
It reminds me of a great quote: “Be kind, for everyone you meet is fighting a hard battle.” – Plato
Love to you.
I am so sorry to hear of your Mom’s diagnosis, as well as the reaction of some to your stepping back to focus on your family. I had a really bad 2010 after my Mom was diagnosed with Cancer at the age of 71 in January… I fully understand that when you have to, you put the rest of your life on hold to love your Mom.
Please know that my thoughts are with you and your Mom and you family….
Keep strong, Lauren! Praying and thinking about you and your Mom!!
I’m so sorry to hear about your Mom. Cancer is an evil decease . I’m backing you all the way family is first . I hope all will be better soon. Merrry Christmas to you and your family
Dear Lauren,
I’m not one who usually comments, but I do read your blog in my reader and enjoy your posts & projects very much. You are one talent woman with a beautful family that I have to say, I give such kuddo’s to… You have had such a roller coaster ride these last few years with your daughter’s health, your mom’s horrible ordeal with her husband (thank God she survived that!) and now your mom diagnosed with cancer. (BTW, I cried reading your post). Know that there’s so many of us thinking of your mom and your family. I’ll keep her in my thoughts and my prayers. And as far as your business goes…I think your true followers, readers, customers will always be there for you, whether they are like me and don’t comment or always do…real people don’t turn their backs on others when times get tough. Hang in there! If it’s ok, can I have your mom’s address, I’d like to send her a card.
Please enjoy the holidays with your family and have a Merry Christmas!
Please have a wonderful holiday – you already know to enjoy every minute with loved ones. I have followed you for many years and know already that your choices come from the right place, whether they are personal, business, or crafting related. Your followers and your business will still be here – if the make up of that population changes, so be it. I’m not normally one to quote scripture – but here you go… “For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the LORD, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.” Jeremiah 29:11
Best wishes to all of you this season. Blessed be.
Hi Lauren – I hardly comment, but I do come often to be inspired! First of all – I am so sorry to hear about your mom. I know that this past year has been a challenge for her and you too. Secondly, I am saddened that some people made you feel that you had to explain yourself and your private life. Thirdly, I am greatly appreciative that you do make your FAMILY your PRIORITY! Too many people make work come first, and miss out on precious memories and opportunities! Blessings to you and your family, prayers are being lifted for all of you. Have a Merry Christmas and continue to be the shining example that you are for your children!
Lauren,
you this right one the family always in first place.
Have faith, God will look for you all.
I am holding you and your family in my thoughts this season and throughout your journey with your mom. Hugs girl!
First and foremost, please take care of yourself and your family and I will be praying for your mother during this difficult time. It seriously pains me to think that people would send you emails about potentially losing your customer base by limited posting. I miss your posts only b/c I like to see new things, but you will never lose me as a customer. Your drive and talent amaze me and keep me coming back and will ALWAYS keep me coming back 🙂 If I can help in any way, please email me. I’d be happy to do what I can.
All the best,
Heather
your family is first and foremost always….yes, we love your inspiration and creativity but i certainly admire your devotion to your family.
saying a prayer for you and yours…
Wishing you and your family, esp. your Mom, only the best! She and your family need you now more than ever, so do what you do best: be a mom, daughter, wife etc.
You’ve shared so much of yourself with all of your creative projects, that would last for a long time. So take all the time you need, and we’ll be right here cheering you on, praying for you
Merry Christmas ~ Much Aloha!
I am so sorry to hear this Lauren. Many prayers for you and your mom.
Lauren I am SO sorry to hear about all that your family is going through. I am a follower and will continue to be a follower of yours. Take your time and do what you can. Family is always first and will always be there when ever you are up of down. Good Luck with everything. My Grandma had cancer and beat it, and I hope your Mom can too. She is a STRONG women from what I have read and I know she has fight in her.
Lauren, hugs to you and your Mom. I wish for the very best for both of you. You should never feel defensive about the choices you make for your family or your business. You don’t owe anyone an explanation! Hang in there!
i know that you don’t need people telling you tht you are right to put family first – you know to do that! no ones opinion matters except yours and your families. YOU take care of yourself also.
Oh, Lauren…I’ve wondered about you and I’m sorry that this is going on in your life. Your priorities are exactly where they are and you trust a great, big God who has this entire situation under control. No matter the outcome of all of this you mom will be healed and your business will be fine. God’s plan is much more complete than we can ever imagine. Jeremiah 29:11-13. HUGS!
Lauren – you must follow your heart and do what you need to do to be at peace with yourself. Your mother and your family need you – nuff said! The world will go on around you, but you must do what is important for you and not for the world. Hugs – ~chris
Big Hugs for you, Lauren. Sorry to hear about your mom. FAMILY does always come first. Take all the time you need for your family hon. Your true customers will always be here for you when you are ready to return.
Hugs to you and your family! No question, no explanation necessary – family comes first!
Lauren – I’m so sorry to hear about your mom, but I totally feel that you have your priorities in the right order. Please know that you and your family are in my thoughts and if you feel it is appropriate, please let us know how she (and you) are doing.
Lauren,
I am sorry to hear of this cancer trying to attack your mom!!! Also sorry to hear of the jerks that feel this business is more important than your family!!! Also sorry you were forced to reveal this to everyone!!! Your priorities are 100% right on and you don’t need to worry of those who don’t feel that way. Having lost my mom5 years ago, please spend all the time you can with her!!! If this wasn’t the case and you just wanted time off to enjoy the holidays, who is anyone to say you can’t???? Praying for you all!!! Your friends will be here for you no matter what!!! Hugs and love to you!!!
Jamie
Prayers for you and your family.
I am so irritated right now that anyone would even feel they have the right to question or judge what you are doing with your business. It is okay to take some time whether it is for yourself for the holidays or for a major family event/illness.
You tried to let us know and set a boundary while maintaining some privacy (which you are entitled to), you did that and people should accept that. Sadly in this computer age, people think they have a right to access others life or that they are owed an explanation. Again, this is up to you…but I will be thinking of you now that I know.
Lauren, you do what you need to do for your family. That is by far the most important thing in this world. Your business and your customers will still be here when you return. Heartfelt blessings to you and your family during this difficult time. I hope you have a blessed holiday season full of love and laughter. Hugs to you and bah humbug to anyone who added to your stress. 🙂
Hugs to you, Lauren! I’ll be praying for complete healing for your mom!
I’ll be praying for you, your mom and your family. May God give you the peace that passes all understanding.
Hats off to you for keeping your family first. When I lost my mom that’s one of the lessons that I learned from that experience.
Have a beautiful and blessed Merry Christmas!!
—Jacqui
I am so sorry to hear about your mom. My mother is my rock and best friend also. Family is the most important thing and I am happy that you have chosen to put that first. Like you stated you started crafting to share your love of something and we appreciate that, but I am also understanding and will be here, Praying for your family while you are going through such a difficult time, and will be here when you are able to come back to posting. Please don’t worry about losing followers, customer or such because It will all work out for the best. I hope that you have a wonderful holiday season and a Happy new year. May God be with your mom and your family. Prayers sent in your direction.
It makes me very sad to hear that people have been giving you trouble during this time of need. Telling you that you are going to loose people because you take a bit of time off. It is none of our business as to why you are not posting every day, and I am sad that it came to you having to post something that you wanted to keep personal. You should be able to keep anything you want in your life personal and just yours. As someone said above, if you loose followers/customers because you take a bit of time off, they weren’t worth worrying about in the first place and weren’t true followers/customers. You are beyond talented and do more then enough for everyone to keep busy while you are gone.
take care of your family, and you are all in my prayers. I will also put you on our prayer chain at church.
Many Hugs, Lots of Love, and Blessings for your family.
Inky Hugs,
Cristena
I decided a little while ago to do what I can to make sure that what little privacy I have left is completely in my control. There are ways to protect one’s privacy, of course. But is it possible that if we all become “un-privacized,” we’ll simply be in a different paradigm with new and interesting expectations of privacy? The strange will become the new.”>
Oh Lauren, I’m sorry that a few people felt they had a RIGHT to know your personal business. You take care of your sweet mom and everyone here in cyber land will be just FINE! I’m praying for your family sweet one, hope you guys have a MERRY CHRISTMAS!!
Well said Lauren … I respect and fully admire your honesty and your choices … what a shame some others can’t … you take care of what you need to … you have more than proved our dedication and talent .. my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family … Have a wonderful Christmas and bless you all xxx
It saddened me when I read that some people had posted that you would lose customers without regular posts and updates. I have been so blessed with your inspiration and the peak into your daily life that I for one will be a follower and supporter if you don’t post for a year! Those of us who have “known” you for a while know that you always put family first and that is how it should be. My heart, thoughts, and prayers are with you, your mom, and your family. My God give you the strength to fight this battle and the courage to keep going in the face of adversity. Bless you all.
So sorry to hear about your mother- you have your priorities “straight” – I applaud you for that!! I hate that others can’t see this. I lost my mother and mother-in-law within 6 months of each other – enjoy your family today and every day there after, life is so precious !!!! My prayers will be with you and your family on this journey.
I am so sorry for what your mom and family are going through. My prayers are with you.
First of all………thoughts and prayers to your family and particularly your mom. You are right, you have had your share, for sure! Second – you will not lose valuable viewers and customers as it is the valuable individuals who understand and have patience. I “see” you when I “see” you and I’m not going anywhere because of a decrease in posts or lighter releases! I am sure there are many, many others who feel this way too!
Take care of what you need to with your family – FIRST!
Hugs,
Kim
Praying for your mom and your entire family! God Bless You!
I thought nothing of it (you not posting). Your priorities are as they should be! Prayingfor healing for your mom
Lauren, I’m very sorry to hear about your Mom. That poor woman has been through hell! And you really don’t need to explain yourself, I’m sorry people have made you feel bad. Your family SHOULD be your first priority, always, and I admire you for believing that. My prayers go up for you, and your Mom, and your entire family. God bless!
First of all, I’m sorry that you felt you even had to defend yourself on this matter. I can’t imagine anyone thinking that your mothers well being should come after business. You’re doing the right thing and it’s a blessing to me to see the faith you’ve put in God. May His will be done. God’s blessings on your mother and you and your family.
Lauren, I am so saddened to hear your news. I have followed your site for a long time and it is clear to me that your priorities have always been your family – and rightly so. Keep doing what you need to do. You will all be in my prayers. God Bless.
We are there with you – God Bless
Sending warm hugs and lots of prayers. May you a have a blessed Christmas.
BRAVO Lauren! Customers are like friends, the true ones will not leave…..the others….well…. there’s lots of other places they can shop! Your priorities are right where they should be. I’ll add you & your mom to my prayer list.
Merry Christmas…..and I’ll see you when you get back!
So sorry to hear about your mom Lauren. Although many of us are so inspired by your limitless creativity, we are also inspired by your courage and dedication to your family. We will keep you in our prayers and hope for the best for your mom and your family. Wishing you a wonderful Christmas and a happy and HEALTHY New Year.
Take care of family first. As much as this is a business it is also a circle of friends. Friends will understand. Posting takes a lot of time and time is precious right now. I can’t speak for others but I will be here whenever you decide you need contact. You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers.
Marion
OK….those that say you may lose your following/business need to be dismissed in your mind. what kind of selfish/self-absorbed person says that about someone who has desired some time off to focus on family….you should NOT even have had to explain. i am so frustrated and upset for you. if you lose those people, no worries!!! God will replace them with people who will stick by you through the good, bad and ugly. that’s what good people do. seriously folks, this is papercrafting!!! not a medical business or something that helps keep you breathing! papercrafting feeds our soul and for me is very soothing/calming. i can look in your archives to find a number of things to keep me busy! i couldn’t even keep up with all of the projects from your templates you provide 🙂 i am sincerely sorry for the utter rudeness of others during this time! even if your mother didn’t have cancer….it’s rude!! you are such a kind sweet spirit. Don’t EVER take on someone else’s issues when they say those things. they will be replaced by true friends/customers who love you for you and for however/whenever you post <3 God's richest blessings on you and your family and we will be praying for your entire family as well as your rock: your mama. hold onto God tightly, He will get you through! Much love to you and yours and have a Merry Christmas!!
I am sorry to hear about your mother. Our family went through that with my sister and she was only 41. But it is a battle you can WIN! My prayers are with you and your mother. And please your priorities are in the right order. Thank you for sharing with us all. I wish you and yours a joyous Christmas and a happy, healthy New years.
I’m behind you all the way.Keep it up and God bless.
Lauren,
God bless you and your family.
Enjoy the time that you spend together because that is what matters most.
I experienced that with my Mom and cherished the months that she spent in our home.
Your Mom is blessed to have you and your family.
Carol b
I am so sorry to hear about another trial in your family. You certainly have had your share this year. Please know that I will stand behind you 100%.
I hope you are feeling the support and love from all of us. The prayers will continue, and your customers will always be here!
Lauren, you are in my thoughts and prayers. I find it hard that some individuals are so greedy they forget the most important thing GOD gave us, LIFE & FAMILY.
Many Hugs to you, mom and your family.
You certainly arnt on your own ……..Barbara Gray of Claritystamps is going through the exact same thing as you are. May God bless and keep his angels close to you all! Time is so precious and a gift from God always use it wisely!
Lauren:
You are a brave woman, and in the right path FAMILY is always first, I’ll be praying for your mom.
Sincerely yours,
Michele
Your priorities are in the right order. My thoughts and prayers
are with you and your family.
Elaine
Take all the time you need Lauren. We’re here for you. I’ll continue to pray for your mom’s health. Hugs to you and the rest of your family.
I, too, have been wondering where you were, but my thoughts were of worry about your welfare, not for paper crafting reasons. I love your website, your products, your creativity, all of it. But I have come to love YOU, the person, more, and as for me, I know you need to step back and take care of your family first. It’s a smart and loving woman who knows what is important. I await the day you can return to the web which will mean the ordeal is behind you. I will be praying for you, your family and your sweet mother.
You and your family are in my prayers.
Lauren, I’m so sorry you’re going through this. It’s bad enough to have health issues in your family, but to have people say you’re going to lose business because of your absence – that’s just insensitive and boorish. You didn’t need to explain, but I’m glad you did so that you can get the support you’re going to need from your community of paper-crafting friends. Blessings to you and your family, and healing white light.
Quit worrying about the negative comments you get! God will take care of those unkind people. I would believe that if they are that unfeeling towards you and your life as it is now, Who needs them?
Take care of your family and yourself FIRST AND FOREMOST. Let God take care of what He does best and just take the time you need to do what needs to be done for you!
If people are truly concerned about you as a friend, they will be here when you get back and in the meantime, they will be thinking of you and will hold your family up in prayer!
Have a Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year and if we don’t hear from you, we will assume that all is well!
Just Let go and Let God as my grandmom used to tell me!
I took this journey with my Father this past year, he was diganosed almost a year ago and past away April 30th. I spent the last four months of his life by his side and it was the most precious time. We talked we prayed and we shared our love of family and God. I put my life and job on hold for those few months and would do it all over again.
You are doing the right thing your family always comes first.
Please know that you have loyal customers who will stand by you through these tough times. You and your family are in my prays.
Lauren, So sorry to hear about your Mom. I had not had a 2nd thought about your slowing posts. You just moved into a new house, you have three children, a house to run…on and on… I, too, am a bit angered that anyone who has been reading your posts long would even make comments about you losing customers because of your lack of posting. Anytime you have not posted much, you have good reason! A job like yours that requires constant creativity and inspiration cannot be easy on top of everything else you are are doing. You hang in there. The only customers you may lose due to lack of postings weren’t really customers after all. Those of us who love what you do and love you will be here no matter what. Even if you take a year to post..I’d keep checking back! LOL That’s how dedicated I am to you. Hang in there with your Mom. I cannot imagine what you must be going through. I can’t imagine what SHE is going through. Keep us posted. There are so many of us who really care about you and your family. 🙂 -Karen
Lauren, so sorry to hear about your Mom and what your family is going through but happy to hear that your family is your first priority, as it should be. I always look forward to your posts & your wondrous creativity, but I certainly don’t keep track of when you post. Sorry you felt you had to share such a personal thing with the world, but you’ve gained a lot more prayer warriors, so that is a positive thing!! Have a wonderful Christmas with your family!
Hi Lauren,
I am so sorry to hear that. Do what you have to do and what your heart tell you to do. You are a wonderful person and a wonderful daughter. Belive and GOD will do. God bless you!!!
Hugs,
Farida
Lauren – prayers will be said for your family. I’m so sorry you are going through this. I wish you and your family the best of luck.
I trust that you will trust in yourself and do what is best for you and your family. Sounds like you’ve got your priorities straight, best wishes and may you and yours be surrounded by unconditional love!
I have been through cancer with my own Mother and your family should be your number one concern. Shame on the people who think otherwise! Sending love and prayers to you and your family!
I am very sorry to hear about your mom. I visit your blog daily looking for new posts, and I am usually disappinted when there is nothing new. But I personally would not change a thing if I were in your shoes. I really miss seeing new projects on your blog….but family and God come before all thngs. My prayers are with you and your family. Things will get better!! Merry Christmas.
Sorry to hear about your mother’s sickness. I wish her a full recovery and many happy and healthy years, and I wish you all the best! And yes, you should always follow your heart, and make your own priorities.
I hug you.
Lauren,
Thank you for sharing your life with us. You are an amazing wife, daughter, and mother and have your priorities where they need to be right now. AT HOME. Your true followers/customers will be here when you have time for your paper crafting again. My mom, 57, beat lung cancer last year and I was doing a lot of driving from VA to PA on a weekly basis for about 9 mo time. I wouldn’t have had it any other way. One dr said there was nothing they could do but my dad found another dr that did a radical surgery that gave her a new life. I’m so thankful for every extra day. I will keep your family in my prayers. Miracles do happen.
Hugs,
Sherry
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Lauren, this post alone has made me decide to be a life long fan of you and your company. You completely have your priorities straight and I applaud you for that. Praying for you and your entire family. So glad you have faith in God who will carry you through this. Merry Christmas!
Lauren, I commend you for putting your family and your faith in the order that you have. I am so very sorry to hear about your dear mom. I lost my mom to cancer in 1999, and if I had it to do over, the one thing I would do is spend more time with her. You do what is right for yourself and your family. If these ‘shoppers’ want to go elsewhere, I wish them well. What a terrible thing for you to be facing, and that you have had to come forward with this very personal crisis due to others’ inconsideration, saddens and angers me. A year or so ago, I nearly quit blogging because an anonymous commenter kept bashing my ‘ugly’ cards, ‘lack of talent’, etc. I prayed about it and decided it was what I love doing, and no one would force me to quit. I only tell you that so that you realize there are just some very unkind people out here, and hopefully, they will move on. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Our God is an awesome God, and I pray that he will wrap his loving arms around you and yours, and that you will find, comfort, peace, and healing in His love. Hugs, dear friend…you are amazing!
Oh honey…you have been through so much in your life….YES! family comes first and anyone who would question that, I just can’t comprehend.
Not only do you have your store and on line gallery for inspiration…but you have years of blog posts that are fabulous inspiration for me to go back and look at from time to time!
Your product is fun and beautiful….I think it will stand on it’s own in the months that your plate is to full to have a formal “release”.
Soooo just take a deep breath and trust in your Heavenly Father….you have such a sweet spirit about you…I know he loves you and things will work out.
Take care sweet girl! Diana Queen
We love you, Lauren! All our hearts are with you and the family during this difficult time … I’m sending prayers your way too 🙂
Lauren I must say I’m ashamed of any one of your followers who might be upset that you haven’t posted anything as often. We all love this crazy paper addiction & spend a lot of time & effort trying to make things to share but family is the priority for all of us & I applaud you for taking time off to do what needs to be done to help your Mom … The paper crafts will ALWAYS be here, family won’t !!! Take time to love them & do what YOU need to & don’t worry about your business … The ones who count will be here waiting for the next wonderful creation when YOU have time !!! God bless you & your family … Take ALL the time you need …
Big hugs, Janie
Lauren, I’m sending prayers for your mom and your family. Family ALWAYS comes first — everything else can wait. Big hugs!
My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family. You are an inspiration to many. Sending you warm wishes this holiday season. Michele
I know several online people that are taking December off to spend time with family and none of them have been given the gift of cancer to deal with. Never feel like you have to make excuses to take time off. YOU come first and your family.
Thank goodness that you have kept your priorities in the right place. Take care of you and your family and your mom… do what you need to do to to help you feel like you’re keeping the Wife, Mom, Sister, Daughter priority of your life in focus. Your true followers and patrons will still be here when you’re able to come back.
I’m terribly sorry your family is having to go through yet another trial of your physical and spiritual abilities. Keep the faith. You are a daughter of a loving Heavenly Father. He would not give you a trial that you are not strong enough to bare the burden of.
Have a Merry Christmas.
PS: Remember, this company is yours. No random online individual can tell you how to run it or what you’re supposed to do to keep it running. It’s yours. Don’t let some inconsiderate, SELFISH know-it-all push you around. (ooo-rah!)
I am new to your site, but do understan what you and your mother are going through, just wish I had a daughter here to stand by me. My husband is my rock, I have gone through colon cancer, and colon cancer in my lung, removed foot of colon and removed part of my lower right lung to remove cancer. I am now waiting to have pet scan done later this month, my cancer marker is up and I may be facing cancer again. Don’t want my husband to have to go through this a 3rd time either. But like you and your mother I have faith and constantly ask God to please not let it be cancer this time. I am living every day with joy and laughter, will keep your mother in my prayers, just know there are people that care. God Bless
Hi Lauren – so sad that people would say you are going to lose them as a customer just because you haven’t been posting. That’s ridiculous and selfish on their part. Anyone who is a TRUE follower of yours knows that you have many things in your life to deal with. You have stated your case well, and while some of us knew this behind the scenes news I’m glad you put it out there for all – you will receive far more PRAYERS and support than complaints and gripes! You know you have my prayers on a daily basis.
Lauren,
I haven’t read what others were saying about your business but it is totally not true. Be brave and ignore those that threaten you. You do have a loyal following and always will. Take care and do what you need to do. We will always be here.
Lauren I am so sorry to hear about your mom! May you all be strong and may God get you through this difficult ordeal! Hang in there hun! My Mother-in-law is a miracle and I believe there is a miracle for your Mom too! My MIL was diagnosised with stage 4 breast cancer back in 1999…they only gave her 2 years to live….and she is still with us today and remains in remission! 🙂 I will pray for your mom that she may be strong in her battle! Sending LOTS of hugs to you all! And you are DEFINITELY correct FAMILY ALWAYS comes first hun!!!! 🙂
Love & Hugs~
Kim
Oh Lauren!! I’m so sorry to hear about your mother’s cancer diagnosis. My family will be praying for you, your mother & your family as you all journey through this. Those of us that have walked this journey with you & Alexa, will always be here for you. HUGS and prayers.
Lauren, I am so sorry this struggle with your mom continues. I know all of her issues with the abuse go very deep and to now have this extra burden is so difficult. Know that you have been missed and I thought it must be something family. You have your priorities in the right place. I can’t believe anyone would be so self centered as to not understand. It isn’t all about them but about your family and proper order of things. Please put them out of your mind and center on the loving support you have out here with so many people. Prayers continue and we will hear from you when you have time to write.
Lauren,
I am a 3 year survivor of breast cancer, and I just KNOW that without the love and support of my three grown daughters, it would have been extremely difficult for me.
Your Mum needs you…..we who are your true “followers” will be here for you.
Don’t forget to take care of yourself, too.
God Bless.
Lauren best wishes to you and you family. Sending you strength for you and family to help your mother through this chapter in life.
Happy Holidays,
Marla
Lauren, thoughts and prayers for your family! This is a tough time for my very close gf and her family, as her 10 y/o was diagnosed 1 1/2 weeks ago with lymphoma. We are in a small town, so her family has to spend the holidays away from home. I believe in Family being number one as well. They are all-encompassing. Lots of love to your family through yet another trying time. God has made you very strong to get through another tough time. Sending blessings to you….
Lauren – no explanation needed – I will keep your Mom and your family in my thoughts and prayers – people who are not going through a tough family crisis cannot understand that other things don’t matter – I am also dealing with a brother with Cancer and recently we dealt with a death in the family and my Mom having congestive heart failure, suffering a heart attack (4 blockages) and severe pneumonia – we will be spending Christmas at the hospital between both of them – it is not easy BUT they are the only ones that matter – if nothing gets done for the holiday – so be it – we can celebrate it another time! You need to take care of your family and most of all your self – if your customers hold that against you than they are not worth your time! Have a Blessed Holiday – enjoy your family – life is too short to sweat the small stuff!
I am sorry for a few things for you Lauren….
I am foremost sorry to hear about your mom. Your family has definitely had their share of hardship. I know she has the biggest support in you and your family, and wish all the best in her fight against it.
I am aslo sorry that you found you needed to write this email. Screw everyone else!!! You take the time you need to support your family!!! As your blog is also your business, a quick little note about family responsibilies is great, so people know you haven’t closed shop, but that is all you owe anyone. No apologies are necessary otherwise. THose that will stop reading because of that are not worth sharing yourlife and time with.
I wish you all a Merrry Christmas, and all the best in 2011.
Diane
So sorry to hear about your Mom, pray that God heals her and brings her relief from pain. You are right to do what you are doing. When you are ready to come back you will have the same people there waiting to see your new creations, and share in your creativity, the most important thing is God and Family and you are right were you need to be, all the best to you and your family!
Do what you have to do – we will always be here. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family for a better year ahead.
Laurean….don’t you worry none about the mean spirited people out there. You take care of your family and God will take care of the biz. He is always in control no matter what the case may be.
Real life happens and I appreciate and love your honesty. Always be real and never hide the truth. You never know whom it may touch.
By these posts, it looks like a lot of gals are standing in the gap for you. Praise God.
So sorry to read your news Lauren. I hope your mother gets through this journey. Of course your family must be your priority, take care
x
You are absolutely doing the right thing! Though I know you don’t need us to tell you that. You are doing exactly what we all would do in your shoes. I am sooo very sorry for what you are going through, but very proud of the way you are handling things and yourself. I am very sorry someone appears to be giving you “grief” over not being so active right now, I’d be disappointed if you were very active given everything else. Lots of love, huge hugs and always prayers… to you and your whole household!!! Love ya girl!
I will always stay a follower of your blog and a customer of your store. I think family should always be our most important issue. When your mother is well, I know you will be back full force with joy in your heart because she will be healed. May God continue to bless you and your family.
Lauren, I am so sorry to hear about your mothers diagnosis. My mother is battling cancer, Multiple Myeloma, and has been for 7+ years. The doctors gave her 4-5 years initially. She is on her 3rd chemo round right now. Keep the faith! You are doing the right thing, putting family first. Come back to us as/when time allows, we will always be here for you!
Lauren, My sincere thoughts are with you and your family. And you are right when you say it is all about Family. In the process of every day life that’s where it’s at. I will watch for posts when you can and carry on when you can’t and I hope everyone else will also be so kind. God’s blessings on your mother’s illness and complete cure. Also please take care of yourself. At these times we have a tendancy to let things go for ourselves, then we are in trouble. Merry Christmas and a Blessed 2011.
None of us are going anywhere…. we’ll fight this battle right along with you every step of the way. Take all the time you need…none of us are going anywhere.
Lauren, I agree with Sara Cross — I’m not going anywhere! I just turned 54 last month so I know how young your mother is; my aunt was attached by her husband, also in an attempted murder; and I have kids — I agree whole heartedly with your priorites and I am proud to know such a brave business woman as yourself who is willing to live by her principles! There are too few of us left, or we are too quiet! YOU GO GIRL! (As the kids would have said about a billion years ago) 🙂
You are a beautiful child of God and do not let anyone tell you otherwise. I thank you for all the hard work you do and all the support you give to others. There is a time in everyone’s life that we have to do things for our self and our family. I will pray for your family and special love and prayers for you mother….
GOD BLESS…..
Hi Lauren, so sorry to hear about your Mum, when your e-mails come through I always think about her and how she is doing. Best wishes for Christmas and the New Year,
the year of the Tiger, we will all be glad to se the back of it.
Rene from OZ xo
So sorry to hear this news. Your family should come first. Take care of yourself, so you can take care of them.
So many of the blog/companies are doing several days of countdowns now. It makes my head swim to keep up with them all. I hope your DT can take over some of the work for the blog. I find pictures with a little explaination, goes a long way with my busy schedule. LOL
My thoughts & prayers are with you and your family now. May you have a Blessed Christmas.
Lauren I’m sorry to hear about your Mother and you are doing the right thing being with her. I can’t believe some people are so shallow and feel they have to bring others down by constantly spouting the negatives. Keep on keeping on with family first and foremost and the rest of us who truly care about you and your family and have grown to love you all through your blog will be here when you return.
Many Holiday blessings to you and your family. Many prayers to your mom.
Hi Lauren.
Sorry to hear you have had your fair share of troublesome times and your Mum too! I am thinking of you all.
I always remember overhearing a boss of mine saying “I work to LIVE, I don’t live to work” before she put the phone down on some demanding person, and it became my motto ever since! Be assured that Family, health and love are the most important priorities and we can survive if we take care of these! These are of course gifts from God like you know!
Your LOYAL fans will always be there to support you with comments and to see what beautiful creations you come up with when and if you are are ready to do so. So, don’t let the negative “where are you’s?” get you down-theyre not worth it!!!
Lots of love and hugs xxx
Lauren, I am very sorry to hear about your Mom. I wish her well and a speedy recovery. Your focus should now and always be on your family. Anyone who is upset because you are not posting more is not worth worrying about. I will keep you and your family, especially your Mom, in my prayers.
Sending many, many hugs for you and your family and hoping the best for your mommy ((HUGS))
Lauren I am so sorry to hear about your mom. I will keep her and your family in my prayers. I agree with you FAMILY FIRST always!
So many others have already said what I feel, so I won’t repeat it … I’ll just send you a big cyber hug!
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Peace be with you all!
Lauren, do not ever, ever feel the need to apologize for putting your family first. They are why we do all that we do. I am sending prayers to you and your mom in this most difficult time. I pray for a full recovery. I pray you find balance.
I was diagnosed 10 years ago at 33 with MS and had to close down my papercrafting website to look after myself and my family. Sadly people can be cruel but I did it without guilt. MS has caused my family grief over these past years as they have seen me go from full of life and energy to someone who struggles daily.
Hugs to you and thank you for sharing.
Take all the time needed as far as I am concerned- I agree Family is the most important thing we each have and if we lose any of it then we are alone and that is not good-having gone through so much already-both your family and your mother I wish you all the best and may your Christmas be happy and bright regardless of whatever else is going on in the background-as someone who has gone through family crisis my heart is out to you -goodluck and God bless. I’ll be here when you get back.
Lauren:
I lost my mother to can cancer two years ago. It is so hard to deal with.
Family comes first.
I will wait until things get better and will be glad to buy your great products.
Some people don’t get it until it happens to them.
Have a great christmas and wish you a better New Year.
Lauren,
So sorry to hear about your mother. My prayers and good health are with you and your family. Its sad you have to read those negative comments I am quite certain your readers will understand that family should always come first. Merry Christmas and my hope for a new year filled with good health.
Lauren,
You just keep your chin up Girlfriend! You are absolutely right, FAMILY comes first. So so sorry to hear about your Mom, but I too believe in God’s plan and I think she will beat this UGLY cancer. I’ll keep you, your Mom and your entire family in my thoughts and prayers.
And like others have said, if you loose customers (shame on them!) so be it.
Huge hugs to you and Merry Christmas.
My thoughts and prayers go to you and your family. Take care of yourself and that precious family of yours, Lauren.
you should never have had to explain all this. we all have life before crafting.
My love and thoughts are with you and your family. Heck your mum has had a hell of a year but she is a fighter and with you by her side she will stay strong. x x x
You take as long as you need and don’t worry about those that don’t come back, you don’t need them x x x x
Lauren I AM so SORRY to hear about your mother…. and everything that she has been thru… my thoughts and prayers are with you in the difficult time…. You are a VERY strong person and You will make it thru this…. You will see who your TRUE friends are once you have gone thru this…
Merry Christmas to you and your family.
Love Melissa in WI
Stay true to your faith and your family and don’t worry about those who do not understand. They can go elsewhere if they can’t stand the heat!
Take care of yourself and your family and God Bless all of you. We will all wait for your return.
With all that is going on in your and your familys life, do stop and be thankful for all that is good and wonderful in your life too just to help balance out all the negative stress.
God does work in wonderful miraculous ways.
Happy holidays and here’s to a great new year!
I am so sorry to hear of your mum but ever so happy that you have your priorities right. I have put my children first for the last 6 years and I will never regret that decision. Family is forever. I hope you have a happy Christmas and that 2011 is more peaceful
Lauren
You and your family will be in the hearts and minds of many people until this journey comes to the conclusion that God has planned for you.
Take care, treaure your moments with your family and do what needs to be done for you and them.
Myrna
You are such a wonderful person—you have your priorities in the correct order. I will continue to watch for your updates and pray for your mother.
I am so sorry to hear of all your family has been through but I do believe that your faith will keep you strong. I think you definitely have your priorities straight with keeping family first. Do what you need to do to take care of yourself and your family and know that your true fans will still be waiting when you return.
I know exactly what you are going through. I went through this with my brother and I was devastated. I see 149 people so far backing you, as they should. You’ve been a constant source of inspiration for many years, and have every right to take the time to be with your family during this difficult time. Stay strong for you, your mom, and your family. Prayers and hugs to you. The MTME DT will keep things rolling along just as we always do!
Lauren, So sorry to hear about your mother. You and your family are in my prayers. Have a wonderful Christmas in your new home with your family.
Holly
You DO have your priorities straight and I’m sure your family loves you for that! It’s no one else’s business to give you advice or tell you that you may or may not lose customers, etc.
Many blessings to your family this Christmas and into the New Year!
Hi Lauren! I only stop by infrequently – and just found this message up. I need to say that I will keep your mother in my prayers – and that I hope you have a truly wonderful Christmas season – in spite of all that must be so painful.
May you be truly blessed in the arms of your family – and I pray that your resolve to be with them and keep them as your top priority may never waver. HUGS and many blessings wished to you!
I’m so sorry to hear about your mom. You are right in keeping your family the top priority. My husband went through chemotherapy last summer through October for lymphoma and he is completely cured of it now. There is always hope and you can always count on prayers for healing. It worked for my dear husband!!
May you and your family have a Blessed Christmas.
Lauren family always Should come first. You have had a roller coaster of a life and that’s what the journey is all about. Please take care of yourself as you are pulled in so many directions. May God lift you up and help care you thru this next challenge. This is helping you earn the stairway to Heaven. Hugs to your entire family, Mary M
Customers will come and go – family is with you forever. It is YOUR business, YOUR family and YOUR life. It is a sad thing that we all feel compelled to answer and explain our internet absences to others. Afterall – it’s YOUR company – and YOU choose how YOU work it – to fit in with YOU and YOUR family.
May you all have a peaceful Christmas that brings with it many cherished moments for all of you. You and your family are in our prayers.
My thoughts and prayers are with your Mom, you and your family, as if you haven’t been through enough already! I heard somewhere that God only gives you what he knows you can handle and I’m sure this is the case for your Mom. I wish for a speedy treatment and recovery for your Mom
Lauren I am so sorry to hear about your mother. I had noticed you had not posted much lately and was worried that maybe Alexa had come out of remission. PTL that has not happened. Also I was worried you had overdone it with the holiday and your busines and has pneumonia or some other illness. My father and mother is with me right now and has been for 3 months. May Dad is terminal and had less than 6 months in Sept. according to the doctors. Only the Lord knows when that will be. It is so hard to see someone you love so much suffer so continue to keep your faith and hang on the His promises. Have a blessed Christmas!
Karen
Lauren, Your most ardent followers will be here. If you lose a customer because you haven’t been diligent about updating your blog, then maybe you don’t need them. I wish your mother a speedy recovery and your family the strength to get through this with her.
Lauren,
I’m so sorry to hear about your mom. I will keep her, you, and your family in my thoughts and prayers. You have your priorities in order girlfriend … we’ll all be here for you when you can find the time for us. For now focus on where you are needed … but do remember to take care of your own well being as well. Sending you a hug filled with strength to get you through whatever life tosses your way. You are an amazing woman and we all love you.
Teresa
You are doing the right thing! Don’t worry we’ll be here when you are ready 🙂 Best wishes1
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I may not comment often, on very many bogs, but…..
I am so frustrated that “some people” must make comments enough to cause you concerns and pressure to say more than you wanted OR NEEDED. ?the fact that you lt people know in advance that you may not post as often should have been enough. For them to express concern, that’sone thing, but to nastily comment that you may LOSE them – BULL. They aren’t your friends and you should actually somehow block them. Take whatever time you need for whatever you need it for, and we’ll be here waiting when you return to blogging more fully. God bless you and your family this holiday season with REAL FRIENDS who truly care about you and yours.
Lauren, 1st off my heart goes out to you and your family! I haven’t posted in awhile but to keep up with you. Or try to anyway! ; ) You are such an inspiration and you are doing the right thing! Family FIRST always! Your true friends, customers, followers will SOOO understand that. No need for you to apologize for anything girl!
Have in there and Happy Holidays to you and yours!
Yvonne
Lauren, I don’t know you as well as others but I do follow your posts and love you work. I’m so sorry to hear about your mother. You are right to trust in God. If you have faith, he will take care of you and your mother. As someone who lost their mother (best friend) at an early age of 53, not from cancer but very unexpectant. You are where you need to be. It’s been 14 years since her passing and I wish I had just one more day with her. So take care of your family and don’t feel guilty at all. I know no matter when you feel up to posting or releasing new products, I will still be here. God Bless you and I will keep your family in my prayers. Take care.
Sorry to hear that your mom is sick! You and your family will be in my thoughts.
I for one, will not be a lost customer and follower. I have always loved what you share with us, but now more than ever I admire you! You have put your family first, and that is all that matters… this decision tells me more about the kind of person that you are, than anything else could.
Keep up the great work with your family and your life! We will be waiting for you…
Have a very nice Christmas, full of love and peace!
My support you have and prayers just look after family first and then worry about business.Your loyal friends will still be here although we do miss you Have a very Happy Christmas see you happy and well in 2011
Fron Australia
Lauren, I am so sorry you and your mother are going through this trial. I will keep you both in my prayers. You are an inspiration and I’m sure the Lord will bless you with your trust and faith in His power.
I am so pleased to read your comments that you place your family first before your business! You are to be commended!!
Wishing you and your family a blessed Christmas and a very happy, healthy and prosperous 2011!
Lauren Bless you and yours and all your going thru. the fact that you feel you have to address this worries me. You have always had your head on straight and your priorities in order. Don’t let a few foolish nonbelievers and jealous of what you have, lead you astray from your beliefs. You will ALWAYS have people who believe in you and your gift to people through your talents. We love you for your beliefs and qualities we adore, not because of your ever growing business. Do what ever you need to do. I think it’s very evident from all the postings that people will always be here for you and your family.
Merry Christmas to all your family, give your Mom a big hug from ALL of us.
Hugs to you ,
Cynde
So sorry…that you had to LET people know. Sounds like the ones affected seem to be pretty selfish! Will be lifting your family and you up in the coming days and months as you are traveling this unmarked road. God has already carried you and worked many miracles this last year. His plans are the best! Glad you are making his plans your plans and not those of us in this world!
I applaud you for standing up for what is important, family. Blessings to you and yours.
Love and Prayers to you, your Mom and your family.
God is in control.
We love you……….
Healing thoughts go out to your Mom. She has had such a rough year and she is fortunate to have such a loving daughter to see her through. My Mom is 87 and is having the aortic valve replaced in her heart the beginning of the year. I spent three months looking after her this past spring when she fractured her neck in a fall. I will be going out to look after her after surgery. I agree with your philosophy that family comes first they are irreplaceable. Hugs to you and your Mom this will be as hard on you as it will be on her. I lost my Dad to cancer 19 years ago. You will never regret being there for someone you love. Ann Lind
Being a cancer survivor (11 yrs) I know what you and your mom are dealing with. All my love and prayers for strength, courage and unending HOPE. Keep a positive attitude and know that you are not alone…..just read the comments, these are real friends. You take all the time you need, family is top priority. The love and arms of many friends are wrapped around you and will be here for you through this new challenge. God’s love and blessings.
Lauren (and family), my thoughts and prayers are with you. It sounds to me that you have your priorities in order. You have been and will continue to be a great source of inspiration to everyone in the crafting world and beyond. My experience is that we are a patient and loving lot!
Special prayers to your mom. My mom was dx’d with breast cancer at age 50…. I agree it’s too young, but you are correct in that cancer is not picky. She (my mom) passed 18 months after her diagnosis, but that was a full 19 years ago… so much in that area has changed. My aunt (mom’s sister) is now battling the disease and has been on/off for 9 years. She is doing well! With a lot of support and encouragement, she’ll beat the nasty C, I just know it :).
I wish you and yours a very merry Christmas.
Big hugs,
Holly
I’m sorry to hear about your Mom, I wish her strength and healing this holiday season. You take care of yourself and your family, we will be here for you when you are ready. You have shared so much with us through the years, God Bless You & your family. You are in my thoughts and prayers! Maureen
Lauren,
You have been many, many peoples inspiration, not only through your gifted talents, but as a Mom who has been through alot with her children. You have always stayed strong and I know at this time you will find the inner strength to be stronger. God is know testing you with your own Mom now, it is a blessing that she has you by her side. You need to take the time now for yourself and family!!FAMILY is the most valuable gift that God has given us. With all of the friends and co-workers that you have we will all stand by your side in prayer! Also, remember with this chaos is your life to make some time for you, whether its just taking a walk or a bubble bath, you need that time. God only gives us what he knows that we can handle, and you are a true saint and will make it through this. Just keep us posted and promise to let us all know if there is anything that we can do you will allow us. You’ve done so much for us!! I hope that you and your family will make the most of Christmas and that God Blesses you with a brighter 2011.
Bev
Dear Lauren
You are so brave to share your family difficulties with all of us. You are absolutely right without any doubt at all to put your dear Mother and family first – I can’t imagine anyone in your situation with such a close mother/daughter bond who would not. You have given us such wonderful inspiration for so many years now that we have much to look back on to keep us busy. Your loyal and true followers will understand and be right behind you with thoughts, understanding and prayers. God bless.
It made my heart sad to hear some people were sending ugly emails. Sometimes people can be so cruel and insensitive. I do not believe your business is going to suffer from not posting something almost everyday.
We live just one life. We need to do it right the first time.
May God bless you and your family.
Kind regards. Jennifer
I just wanted to take a minute and say my prayers are with you. I went through a similar thing with my Dad when he was almost the same age, so I understand that part. I also wanted to say–don’t let people make you feel bad for not posting, etc. You have your priorities right, family is the most important, and those of us that truly love your work will come back and visit your blog!
Take care of yourself and your family!
Lauren,
As I have said to you before – families come first. I know that you have not ignored us, your plate is full with getting over illness, your mother’s cancer, and the move. Right now you do not need additional burdens from others stating you will lose them as a customer. I just figured that you were get acclimated to the move and such. Here is wishing you and your family a very Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year. I will stay tuned for updates!!!
You and your family are in my prayers. Your priorities are where they should be. Take care of you and yours and the rest will come when it comes. Merry Christmas!
Hi, Lauren! I know I don’t always post comments–but I wanted to let you know that it’s ok when people don’t post. I hate that some followers have said that if you don’t post they won’t follow–that isn’t true for me. I am praying for you–praying that God would continue to bring you peace as you journey this long road. I’m so sorry to hear about your mom–but I think that you have got a great perspective and that God has blessed you with insight and understanding. It’s wonderful that you are BF with your mom and that you are able to be there with her through this! Praise GOD! I am also praying for your mom–I pray that she would be healed of this cancer. I pray that she would gain her strength and lean on Jesus! I know that God is the Ultimate Healer–and one day there will be no pain or suffering! I can’t wait! I am also praying for you–that you would continue to serve your family first. Thanks for sharing that your family comes first–I forget that when I’m driven to be #1 or published more…I pray that you would be blessed for serving your family first. God is good–and I pray that you would continue to put your faith and trust in him! PRAISE God for sending Jesus for us so that we can have these relationships with him!
Sorry this is such a random comment–just wanted to let you know that I appreciate your hard work and dedication to your family. Praying for you!
I’m so sorry to hear about your mom – You are a very strong woman so I am sure that you will get through this as well. I agree that family comes first – if someone gets upset with you because you are choosing family over the next “release”, then you don’t need them for a customer. True customers/friends will understand and be there for you no matter what.
Take care,
Angela
First I want to say I am so sorry about your Mom’s battle with cancer, and will keep her and your family in my prayers. Next I would like to say I am so happy to hear you have faith in God, that he has a plan for your Mom. Letting go and letting GOD is so hard for us, but GOD is in control and we need to just let him do his work.
I want to THANK YOU for the inspiration you gave me through this message. The message from Matthew regarding the mustard seed made me sit up and open my eyes. I myself was having a pity party, and then when I read your message and then the words from the book of Matthew, it jolted me back to where I need to be.
In response to your followers, if they are your followers and friends, they will still be there for you when this journey is over. Thank you for being such a wonderful example for the rest of us Mom’s, wifes, daughters and Grandmothers, you SHINE in my eyes.
Merry CHRISTmas and blessings to your family.
Dianna Towner (Vancouver WA USA)
My prayers are with you. You are doing exactly what you should be doing and that is being with your family. Nothing is as important as that.
Happy Holidays!
I’m behind you 100%! Everything we do is for our family!!! And I’m so glad to see that is where your first priority is. Your truly loyal followers understand this and support it! I will keep you and your family in my heart and prayers. You have been such an inspiration!!!
my thoughts and prayers are with you. i lost my mom 12 years ago. she died from congestive heart failure – two years from the day she was diagnosed…and i have to tell you, i put her first and have no regrets, my husband was very understanding and helpful since we had a newborn and a toddler to deal with. like you, i had faith and knew the God would carry me during my journey….he never let me down!! be strong and carry on!!
Lauren, I’m sorry to hear of your mom’s diagnosis. I wish only the best for all of you.
You are very right — family is first! Paper, scissors and glue (and ink, SVG files, stamps, bling, etc) will all still be there when the right moment arises.
Hope you have a very Merry Christmas!
Hi Lauren, I’m really sorry to hear about your mom. I’ll keep you all in my thoughts.
You just take care of your mom and family and if we need something…God knows you have a mile long archive of projects we can revisit! Thank you for that too!! 🙂 In the meantime, we’ll be missing you and sending warm wishes!
Oh Lauren,
God bless you and your family.
My prayer’s are with you dear!!.
How selfish can people be, you shouldn’t have had to explain this to anyone.
Take Care Lauren,
Hugs, Love & Prayers
I am so sorry to read of your mother’s illness. I’m also dismayed by reading that some would question where you are? You mentioned several times how the ‘holidays and family’ were going to be your focus and you would have a New Year release. I for one Love your creations. And if it means you are only on every other month, so be it. Family comes first in my world too. Be with your mother at this time of need. Be with your children and husband also. Your friends will be there for you whether silently or when asked for. God bless you. Merry Christmas and Happy New Year.
I echo everyones sentiments and best wishes for you and your family.
ps – you are also allowed to take some time off FOR YOURSELF too!
I would like to send your way well wishes for your family. You are in our prayers.
I am so very sorry to hear about you mom. Family does come first. The power of prayer can do wonderful things, my mother
had cancer, they said they couldn’t get it all, but when she went back after chemo, they could find no sign of it. Will keep all of you in my prayers.
Peace.
Wow you have had so many adventures this last year..and you are stronger because of it..I have traveled the road you are on with you Mother just 4 years ago..My journey was so wonderful..I thought I knew my Mom..but this gave us a chance to become so much closer ..I thought I knew myself real well but Mom was there to teach me. You see as my Mom was undergoing her cancer treatment, My oldest son was diagnosed with Hopkins Lymphoma. I was in such awe how my son and Mom handles their treatment..But I was so amazed at how strong I am and that is the best gift I received from both of them..I hope you learn some of the most important lesson as i had
Ana
Lauren
I am so sorry to hear your news but I am sorry that you have been put in a position where you had to share with the world.
I think that you are an amazing person . . . and you have amazing strength. My thoughts are with you and your family and I hope that you can try and enjoy this Christmas time. Here’s hoping that 2011 is a better year!
Best Wishes Sarah
Don’t ever feel sorry for putting your family first Lauren!!! I support your decision 100% and your company!!! My prayers are with you and your family. Everything will and does work out I know I’ve been there!
Lauren, my heart aches for you. I lost my father to cancer 3 years ago – it is so unfair – you want the world to stop and care about them. Please know we all know your family is first – stamping seems so unimportant. I will pray for you and your entire family… Peace be with you.
Lauren, your story is more of an inspiration than anything that you could create. My prayers are with you and your family. Thank you for sharing what is going on in your life, however, the audacity of those questioning what you have been doing sickens me. Family is the life that comes before all others. Stay faithful and you will be content with the decisions that you have made
Many prayers for you mom, you and your family. God Bless!
Oh hon! I’m so sorry about this – your mom has gone through so much already! Please know that you all – and especially your mom – will be in our prayers. Don’t you worry about your business – God will take care of it – and we’re not going anywhere. I’m very proud of you for putting family first – that’s the way it should be and we’ll be supporting you through all of this. May you be blessed with God’s peace during this time
Lauren, I am so sorry. You and your mother, and your family will have a hard road ahead. My prayers will be with you all. My best friend was diagnosed with stage 4 lung cancer in July of this year. It has been hard, but God is in charge. She is better, still working, through chemo, etc. God will get you all through this, and He does have a plan. Family does come first. You have the support and prayers of huge number of people, I am sure. We will welcome posts when we get them. Take care.
Lauren,
You are very lucky to have such a strong family bond – cherish it as I know you do. Your priorities are definitely respected. From all of these comments – majority supports you. My prayers are with you and your family.
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Lauren, thank you for sharing with us. I am glad you are putting your family first. I am sorry to hear about your mother and will pray for your family, you are such a wonderful daughter
Big Hug Harma
It is absolutely necessary for me to read your wonderful post. Well written article on your site, thank you for sharing.
Went through the same thing with My Mom, she died at a young 62! If people are so insensitive they don’t deserve such a good blog to follow! Take care of Your Mom first, You will never regret it and You two will be closer than ever! God Bless!
Will be here when You can return!
You will never regret the time you take to care for your family. Family is really all we have. Your business will be there for you when you have the family matters solved. You are so creative that no one will depart because that hole will cannot be filled by anyone else. So take the time you need, don’t feel any guilt and return in full strength when the time is right. We will all still be waiting right here. God bless you and have a Christmas filled with His love. God is good—all the time.
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Hi Lauren, You’ve had a lot on your plate the last year or two. However, family comes first, no matter what else is going on. I find it sometimes helps to remember this quote: “Those who matter don’t mind, and those who mind don’t matter.” Your kids are only young once and growing fast, and your Mom – and especially your hubby – need you now. I wish you the best and hope all will finally be well with your Mom. Don’t forget to take care of yourself!
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so sorry to hear about all that is going on in your life… but so happy to see where your priorities are! i am a nurse as well (still working part time in surgery as a first assistant) and though i don’t have a stamp company or a special needs child, i can relate to what you are going through with your mom’s cancer diagnosis. your priorities are in order and that is what’s important. i am keeping you and your family in my daily prayers. keep the faith.
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Lauren,
So sorry to hear about your mother. I hope she does well with your treatment; she is very fortunate to her you there by her side, which is right where you should be! I am so sorry you have had to deal with negative comments because you didn’t post as frequently as some people thought you should – that is something you definitely do not need to deal with. Keep the faith, stick by your mom. You’re doing the right thing!
{{hugs!}}
Oops…meant hope she does well with her treatment. I will keep you both in my prayers.
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